Let’s Talk About Sex (and our teens)!

When you were a teenager did you seek out advice and information about sex from your parents?  Were your parents a primary source of guidance and comfort for you with issues regarding your sexual practices and behavior?  Did you talk to them about masturbation?  Did you discuss how far you were “going” on dates?  Were

Not Just Partners, Lovers!

As a Relationship Counselor/Coach and workshop leader, I have met and worked with hundreds of couples in their fifties and sixties who are struggling with unsatisfactory sex lives.  When we are young, sexually active adults, we tend to take for granted that feelings of arousal will be accompanied by tumescence (the swelling of genital tissues), erections

Dating After Divorce: Talking to My Children

I teach sexuality, intimacy and love for a living – in workshops, in private coaching sessions, online with my blog and podcast, and at various trainings and events.  And, I am a divorced, dating Dad.  Getting back into the dating world after a relationship breakup seemed overwhelming at first.  Trying to meet people, having the

15 Tips For a Great Relationship

Whoever has the problem, has the solution. What you find hard to say, you must say. Instead of arguing or debating, reflect your partner’s feelings back to him or her. Talk is very important. Loving, intimate touch is often more important than talk. Great relationships require time investment. Practice surrender.  Find out what your partner