The Five C’s

Occasionally I’m invited to speak to high school kids about sex and sexuality. I love it. Usually the kids have a fairly good understanding of the basics of reproduction – men have seed which they deposit in women, conception occurs when seed fertilizes egg, etc. What they lack is good solid information about sex, sexual

The Circle of Loving Service

When I study the question of how to make love stay I find myself pondering 5 key concepts and their interrelationships:  Love, Commitment, Freedom, Service and Joy. Service Leads to Freedom <–> Freedom Leads to Service Freedom Leads to Joy <–> Joy Leads to Freedom Joy Leads to Love <–> Love Leads to Joy Love Leads to Commitment <–> Commitment Leads

The Five C’s

Occasionally I’m invited to speak to high school kids about sex and sexuality. I love it. Usually the kids have a fairly good understanding of the basics of reproduction – men have seed (sperm) which they deposit in women, conception occurs when seed fertilizes egg, etc. What they lack is good solid information about sex,