Here’s a terrific short video – and an important reminder to anyone who has ever loved (by which I mean everyone :)). Inspirational thinker Brené Brown considers why we blame others, how it sabotages our relationships, and why we desperately need to move beyond this toxic behavior.

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Brené Brown studies human connection — our ability to empathize, belong, love. You have probably seen some of Brene’s other videos, notably  her TED Talk on “The Power of Vulnerability” which has been viewed more than 24 million times.